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This week’s words are:
WEEKEND
UNEXPECTED
CARE
Last weekend I received and unexpected call from an exboyfriend. I stepped into the roll of friend without missing a beat. He needed that friend to listen to him. I didn't care that I was listening to him groan about his most recent ex girlfriend. He needed me and I was there as a friend. Then Tuesday she called and without missing a beat, he bumpped me out of the friend seat.
I'm tired of being the nice girl. I am sick to death of being taken for granted. Maybe I will start acting my age. I will be shallow, look out for only me, and spend ungodly amounts of money on clothes and makeup. Being mature, kind, and caring doesn't seem to be getting me anywhere. First he was gone as a boyfriend/mate and I was sad. Now, I open up as a friend and it hurts all over again.
Ok my rant is over. Those of you who know me, know that I will never give up on love or most anything else. I am, despite my life not being on the route that i would like, a very happy and content girl! Have a great week everyone!
11 comments:
I would say not to be friends with your exes, but my ex-husband has brought many good unexpected things into my life
Just stay open--stay happy--stay trusting with just a bit of skepticism
And look at this as a learning experience--but don't lose the essential joyfulness you so obviously have
you sure as hell don't need any relationship advise from me!!!! your doing fine... just do what comes naturally to you....
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cheerleader, fun post!!
i agree, i won't give up on love!! i'm a hopeful romantic.
-charles
How great to be so upbeat!
It's all about learning how far to extend yourself and when, isn't it.
Nice to hear you don't up.
~S
Thanks everyone. I am feeling more upbeat now. Every day I breathe is a great day, if I choose to make it one!
Being mature, kind, and caring doesn't seem to be getting me anywhere.
The thing is, even realizing that doesn't help me. I can't seem to change that behavior, even when I'd like to. I'm going to guess it won't be easy for you either.
Staying friends with exes doesn't really work for me. Sometimes I wish it did, but I suck at it. There are some people we aren't meant to be friends with, and for me, it's usually an ex.
Boy it's hard to stay friends with exes. But, you should not let them jade you.
Its tough to care but so much more rewarding than not caring.
I like that you had a little positive and hopeful ending after the rant was over :)
Thanks for playing this week!
I hope you don't change who you are for the sake of love or a man. I would much rather see you gain happiness by being yourself and enjoying life. Have a nice day.
Michelle
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